The fastest way to build a business that matters is to stop listening to everyone else.
You're told to pick a "hot niche," to master the "latest growth hacks," to post relentlessly. You absorb the advice, you implement the tactics. And for your trouble, you get a quiet sense that despite all the effort, something crucial is missing.
This is the old model. The model designed for cogs, not creators. The model that promises profit, but delivers burnout.
If your business feels like an obligation instead of a true expression, you're on the path of the masses. The sensible path. The one laid out by gurus who haven’t walked a mile in your shoes.
And it isn't leading to the fulfillment, the freedom, or the resonant impact you instinctively crave.
I know because I have walked it. My journey to building a creative business that feels like me was not a majestic ascent. It was a stumbling pilgrimage through the very “sensible” choices I thought would bring me peace. Each step, in retrospect, felt hollow. Each detour, a vital lesson masquerading as a misstep.
Maybe this somewhat reflects your current reality. Your Substack is “on brand.” Your metrics are… fine. But the fire? The deep, resonant flow of work aligned with your core? That’s a different frequency altogether.
I believe that for creators searching for something deeper than superficial tactics, your most powerful path forward lies not in another external strategy, but in an internal excavation.
What I Learned Analyzing Crash Dumps
My first stop on the sensible path was Computer Science. On paper, it made sense. I was good at it, especially the mathematical underpinnings. I aced my courses, landed an internship at a software company, and even enjoyed the problem-solving aspects of the work. I was, by all external measures, succeeding.
I remember the exact moment the illusion shattered.
It was just before Christmas. I was sitting in the company canteen with some colleagues. One asked, “What are you guys doing over the holidays?” A coworker said she was going to play Playstation 5 when she is bored. A developer to my right responded: „What? If I’m bored I rather analyze crash dumps or write python scripts.“
They looked at me. Silence. I didn’t know what to respond. Neither option resonated. Not in the slightest. I wanted to say I go to the gym, I hang out with my friends, maybe dance.
In that single moment of profound alienation, I realized: I don’t belong here. That was my inner contrarian, speaking up for the first time with undeniable clarity.
A new dream emerged. Becoming a psychotherapist with my own practice. Another sensible path. Another five-plus years of study. My inner voice immediately interfered: “This takes way too long.”
So I did what any confused, socially conditioned person would do. I buried the voice and pursued a Master's in Computer Science.
By the end of it, my inner voice was screaming. I knew I was on the wrong path, but admitting it meant confronting the six "wasted" years of my life.
Simultaneously, the energy of entrepreneurship was pulling with an almost gravitational force. I started an e-commerce experiment while finishing my thesis.
This wasn't logical. This was energetic. This was the Unconscious, staging a compensatory rebellion against the tyranny of the sensible path.
The Power Of Wasting Your Time
My inner contrarian, now fully awake, bought a one-way ticket to Thailand after my Master's, seeking “enlightenment” in a meditation retreat. (Spoiler alert: enlightenment didn't arrive).
After six months of travel across Southeast Asia and India, I still hadn't found the answers. Worse, I was slowly running out of money. So I sought business salvation in LA with fitness coaching programs.
The creator economy is full of gurus offering to sell you their map. The seven-figure promises, the proven systems.
I bought them. With my last dime, literally. The result? Disillusionment. And a return ticket to my parents' house, pockets empty.
This isn't a sob story. This is an initiation.
These detours, these "failures," are not the end of your story. They are the beginning of your true story. They are essential data points. Each apparent misstep, each disillusionment, provided invaluable information about what was not me. And it brought me closer to what was.
This is taught me to integrate my Shadow: acknowledging and learning from the parts of our journey, and ourselves, that we might prefer to hide. It is in this "wilderness" of experimentation that true self-knowledge emerges and resilience is built.
There is profound power in being able to exist within uncertainties and doubts without an irritable rush to a premature, "sensible" solution.
Are you afraid that your Substack experiments "fail"? Are you sticking to a "safe" topic or style because you fear it might not yield immediate, positive metrics? What if those explorations are actually fertilizing the ground for your most authentic and impactful work?
When Your True Calling Finds You
It was amidst my e-commerce iterations that something unexpected happened. I realized there was a significant need (by me and others) for truly good product photography and, more deeply, for compelling brand design.
My passion for design, something that had always been there but perhaps not seen as “sensible” enough to be a primary focus, found an outlet. I started a branding and design studio, almost as a side hustle.
And it clicked. Because it was aligned.
The energy flowed. The work felt meaningful. Clients responded. Years later, I sold my e-commerce company and focused fully on the studio. My true path had not been a direct assault on a predetermined goal.
It emerged organically from a space of experimentation, by paying attention to where my energy naturally gravitated and where I could genuinely offer value. Sometimes, the most profound creative callings do not announce themselves with trumpets. They arrive as quiet insights during the „detours.“
What “side passions” or unique skills are you currently undervaluing? Your most powerful contribution often lies in the unexpected fusion of your distinct interests. It is a niche that only you can authentically inhabit.
Building From the Inside Out
The creator economy, with its superficial tactical advice, doesn’t respect this deeper, internal journey. It's a system designed to keep you consuming, optimizing, and ultimately, conforming.
Your true self demands a different framework.
Forget "personal branding."
Think Psycho-Strategic Alignment.
This is what I mean by building from the inside out. It involves three critical axes:
Axis 1: Archetypal Resonance
Old way: "Analyze the market for unmet needs.“
New way: First, analyze your soul for its unmet expressions.Your most potent niche emerges from your dominant psychological archetypes (the Sage, Rebel, Explorer, Artist, etc.). These are the universal patterns that dictate your natural creative flow, communication style, and the themes that truly energize you. Ignoring this is like swimming against your own current.
My insights: My “sensible” CS path ignored my inner contrarian (Maverick archetype). It was like asking a volcano to be a spreadsheet.
Axis 2: Shadow Integration
Old way: Fears, doubts, and past "failures" are weaknesses to be conquered
New way: Your imposter syndrome, your fear of irrelevance, your past ‚failures' are not your enemies. They are a rich, often unconscious, reservoir of experiences, unexpressed potential, and profound relatability. The work is not to banish them, but to turn towards them, understand their language, and integrate their wisdom. This is what makes you more human and relatable.
My insights: My “failed” businesses weren't just losses. They were brutal, brilliant tutors in resilience and market truth.
Axis 3: Purpose Triangulation
Old way: Purpose is a lofty, abstract ideal, separate from the "business" of creating.
New way: Sustainable creative drive comes from triangulating your unique archetypal energy and integrated shadow wisdom towards a specific, meaningful impact you want to make for your Smallest Viable Audience.
My insights: My desire to offer a psychological-strategic framework emerged directly from the pain of my own purposeless detours.
This isn't some “be yourself” BS. This is psychological engineering for creative impact.
The Psycho-Strategic Blueprint
Stop waiting for permission. Stop seeking the perfect external system. The system you need is internal.
Step 1: Identify You Archetypal Constellation
Don't guess your niche. Discover the archetypal energies that are already alive within you. Use a structured process (like my Archetype Navigator) or deep journaling to identify the 2-3 dominant archetypes that shape your worldview and creative drive. This isn't about picking a label. It's about recognizing your inherent energetic signature.
Step 2: Integrate Your Shadow
Stop trying to be a flawless guru. List your top 3 creator fears or past "failures." Now, reframe them: What wisdom did they impart? How can these "darker" experiences allow you to connect with your audience's unstated struggles more authentically than anyone else? Your perceived flaws are your bridge to genuine connection.
Step 3: Define Your Purpose Resonance Statement
Based on your Archetypal Constellation and Shadow insights, define a single, clear sentence:
I help [Your Smallest Viable Audience] overcome [Their Core Psychological Pain, illuminated by your Shadow work] by leveraging my [Dominant Archetype(s)] to achieve [Their Deepest Aspiration/Transformation].
This is your guiding star, not just a tagline.
Step 4: Construct Your Content Pillars
Look at the common "sensible" advice in your audience's world. How does your Purpose Resonance Statement, fueled by your Archetypes and Shadow, offer a radically different and more resonant approach? Develop 3 content pillars that directly challenge the status quo and offer solutions rooted in your unique psychological framework.
Step 5: Build Your Ecosystem
Forget mass marketing (for now). Engage deeply with a handful of people who resonate with your Purpose Resonance Statement. Share your insights generously. Your Substack becomes the home for these deeper conversations, attracting those repelled by superficiality. Your first true fans are your co-architects.
The world doesn't need another perfectly optimized content funnel selling recycled wisdom. (Really, it doesn’t.)
It needs your unique, psychologically-informed perspective. It needs the work that only you can do, born from the specific alchemy of your detours.
You need to understand your own psychological operating system.
My Archetype Navigator is the first tool for this. It’s not just a quiz. It’s an excavation.
It will show you which archetypal energies are dominant within you and how to leverage them to find (or refine) a niche that isn't just "viable," but vital to your being.
It moves you from guessing to knowing. From chasing to attracting.
This isn't for everyone. It's for the creator who is done with superficiality and ready for depth. Ready to build something that lasts because it's built on something real.
The foundation for your most powerful work is internal. Your external creation becomes a natural, powerful, and unique extension of who you are.
The question is, are you ready?
I help Other Autists overcome Identity, Social and Career Woes by leveraging my misadventures in Sales, Dating, and Self Acceptance to achieve More Success or at least the feeling it’s ok to be who you are.